I Will Survive

Christmas came and went, like it usually does, but this year I made sure I didn't get myself as hyped up as I usually do.  When I was younger, I would get so wound up that after the holiday was over I found myself asking, "That was it?"  So, I've trained my young mind to just go with the flow, to enjoy each day, not get too excited if I don't get everything I think the kids would like, and to just be.

I do human very well.

Now, with 5 little kids, they tend to be showered with gifts from well intentioned relatives.  The trouble with that is, their parents had already showered them plenty, and our home is a modest size, with only so much shelving/cupboard space.  It has taken me 3 days to get all the toys organized.  Last night I spent 2 hours going through their old stuff and tossing out whatever was chipped, or broken.  (I do this every month or so.  My kids are destructive.  This did not come from me, I assure you.)

I think next year, the rule will be no toys.  *Insert cackle here*  But really, the amount they have is ridiculous.  I have to have them in rotation to keep myself sane, and keep them interested.  That is hard work people.   I would much prefer to challenge myself in more meaningful ways.  So, for those of you who had been generous this year, thank you, they really do love their gifts!  However, come next year, let's do less gifts and more visiting.

Sounds good to me.